Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless –Mother Teresa.
When was the last time you told someone you were proud of them? Was it for something small or big they accomplished or a goal they were working on day in and day out? In any event, did you tell them?
Over the past two years I have encountered some challenges but continue to remain thankful for each situation. From work and home life to family and friendships – the lessons have been worth it. But more importantly, I’m thankful for my motivators and inspirers who keep me going with kind words. And this week, I got a dose which was right on time.
“I’m proud of you.” It’s amazing how these four words stopped me right in my tracks. While I’ve been told this before from friends to colleagues, I think what grabbed me: it was from someone close who noticed. Certainly there have been others who have said the same words – you know who you are and I appreciate you — but it got me thinking about why it was so important.
When someone says, they’re proud of you it means they’ve been paying attention to you through the ups and downs, been right there watching you remain committed to what you want to accomplish. And it means a lot.
I sat there and re-read the email about three or four times and then responded with how much it meant to me. It was what I needed and I held onto the words.
We all know how important it is to compliment one another – especially women. But when someone actually notices it carries a lot of weight. At that moment I felt reinvigorated, courageous, ambitious, and knew I could count on myself to keep moving forward.
The next time you see something worth the mention, tell the person “I’m proud of you!” We all could use a pat on the back.
Because the sun always comes out after the rain . . .
P.S. And for the record, I’m proud of you reading this post. I am certain you have done something to hug yourself for :o)